Well from many days some kind of Woman compaign pictures with posters became so viral in Social Media and i saw a huge number of people posting and comenting their negative views and opinion about that,
especially some Mard Hazrat wrote such unethical words about Woman that i even dont wanna
Some replied in a sarcastic way that if its about #KhanaKhudGaramKrlo and #ChaiKhudBnaLo than whats the work of Woman ?
Oh Man ! Please Get out of your that narrow thoughts its not at all an ancient time period when woman was considered to just sit at home and do not take any part in the development of Society / Country.
Now we all knows that Woman are working side by side with Man and are neither less than man in any field of life
And even in our Religion Woman is not considered as a house wife because she is not married with house infact she is considered as a house Maker !
Anyhow Thats all about backgroud now come to a point that some Male have issues to do this #KhanaKhudGrmKrn #ChaiKhudBnaiyn??
Well my question is by doing this does ur Respect angle that is on the peak of 360° will reach linearly on 90°?
Oh ! Let me tell you something that there is nothing shameful at all by serving yourself even if u are a boy. Infact its a way of Responsibility and do not depend on others….
I am not saying at all that Woman should not cook for their father /brothers / husband
Offcourse they can, they should !
but all i am trying to say is that do not considered it a woman’s duty no matter either that woman is ur Mother, Sister or Wife !
Because still there are some people in our Society who used to say
“Larkiyoon ne kiya krna hy parh likh k , krna to unhn handii chula he hy ”
it means that they considered handi chula
a woman duty !
Plz get a life and do not break the dreams/ visions of ur girls for the sake of this handi chula
Infact teach them to touch the sky instead being telling them that handi chulla ,
khana pakana, chai garam krna blah blah is ur only duty in this life !
Ok For a moment Forget every thing , let’s talk about the one and only Allah’s Messenger Our beloved Prophet Muhammad Peace Be Upon Him
who is the greatest example for all
Have u ever read about His Life..
He would milk His sheep, patch His garment,
serve Himself and even mend his shoes.
Once “Aisha R.A” was asked about what the Prophet (p.b.u.h.) used to do in his house, She said “He used to work for His family, that is to serve his family, and when the prayer time came, He went out for prayer.” (Bukhari)
So #khanaKhudGaramKarlo #ChaiKhudBnaLo
is not a big deal Man !
Grow up please…
And learn from the life of Allah’s Messenger because God made him a good example or a “goodly model” for all human being’s to follow in every aspect of life.
And lastly I am extremely sorry if my any word hurts someone because These are my personal thoughts , you have right to disagree and ur opinions are most Welcome to be appreciated.
Sincerely : Mahnoor Syed